RESOURCES, blogs & RECOMMENDED READING
There are so many great resources and tools out there to learn from. These are a few of my favorites. Feel free to peruse, use, and share as needed.
Attachment in Adoption
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Parents of adoptive children can learn from this book about specific ways to nurture attachment with their children. Parents can also use this book to discover what stage of emotional development their children are in and learn new ways to respond to children's unique developmental and attachment needs.
Amazing You: Getting Smart About Your Private Parts
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Designed with preschoolers in mind, this book provides important information to children about their bodies. It labels what parts of the body are private parts and introduces basic information about how babies are made from a part of daddy and a part of mommy. This book is a wonderful way for parents to start early...
Deviced! Balancing Life and Technology in a Digital World
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What an important resource in a time when so much of our day is spent in front of some sort of screen. Dr. Doreen Dodgen-Magee guides readers inthoughtfully considering their own current technology use and offers ways to develop new habits while living life with embodied awareness.
Braver-Smarter Stronger: A Girl’s Guide to Overcoming Worry and Anxiety
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This is a workbook for girls who experience anxiety and feel inhibited by the worries that can so easily take hold. It helps girls to build an identity
separate from the anxiety feel and learn tools to keep the anxiety in check
so they can do the things they love to do.
How to Talk So Kids Will Listen & Listen So Kids Will Talk
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This is a practical book full of ways parents can respond differently to their children in order to build more open patterns of communication. The authors offer real-life scenarios that parents often encounter with their kids and walk readers through how to do things such as express their emotions in ways that won’t harm the parent-child relationship, handle a child’s negative...
God Made All of Me
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This children's book is incredible resource for parents as they begin the ongoing conversations with children about sexuality and body safety rules. The authors reiterate throughout the book how each and every part of the human body (including private parts!) is special, good, and wonderfully made. The book provides families with information they need to begin...
Siblings without Rivalry: How to Help Your Children Live Together So You Can
Live Too
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Any caregivers raising more than one child at a time will find so many
gems hidden inside these pages! These authors speak from experience
(both personal and professional) and make practical suggestions for
encouraging cooperation, reducing competition, and increasing problem-
solving skills between siblings.
Fred Stays with Me!
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When parents divorce, children are faced with lots of changes and
transitions. This is a great book to read with young children to normalize
the experience of living in two homes. The main character describes how
she has things at both of her parents’ houses, but her dog, Fred, always
stays with her.
The Power of Showing Up
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Daniel Siegel and Tina Payne Bryson pair up again as they co-author this incredible book that explores human attachment. In gentle and compelling ways, the authors of "The Power of Showing Up" encourage parents to understand their own childhoods and attachment styles in order to make intentional and meaningful connections in relationships with their own children.
Parenting from the Inside Out
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This book help parents understand and explore how the way they were parented impacts how they raise their own children. The authors incorporate research in neurobiology and attachment to explain how interpersonal relationships affect brain development. Parents can learn from the step-by-step process offered in this book to deepen understanding of...
The Explosive Child
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Due to their unique temperament, some children become easily frustrated and are extremely inflexible. When their plans or routines are disturbed, these children often are unable to express their feelings in ways other than throwing severe tantrums. Caregivers are usually left feeling exhausted, helpless, frustrated, and at a loss for knowing what to do. This book guides readers through a new...
Middle School Matters
The 10 Key Skills Kids Need to Thrive in Middle School
and Beyond--and How Parents Can Help
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Phyllis Fagell uses her experiences and skills as a middle school counselor to share with parents and educators about essential skills that this age group needs to develop to help them thrive as they grow. She covers topics such as building healthy friendships and relationships, navigating conflict, bullying, academic pressure, emotional regulation, and
self-advocacy.
The Most Magnificent Thing by Ashley Spires
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This delightful children’s book tells the tale of a young girl who tries time
and again to create in real life the most magnificent design that has been
in her mind. The story wonderfully portrays the development of frustration
tolerance and trying again, even when mistakes are inevitably made.
Mothers, Daughters, and Body Image: Learning to Love Ourselves as We Are
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In this book, author Hillary McBride pushes against the cultural messages that say girls and women earn their worth through appearances. She shares the findings from her research and experiences interviewing young women and their mothers while describing ways to build healthier and more meaningful relationships with all parts of who we are.
The Whole-Brain Child
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Are you interested in discovering new ways to foster healthy brain development and emotional intelligence in your children? This book offers caregivers 12 valuable and practical ways of approaching parenting that will help children lead calmer, happier, and more balanced lives.
I’m Happy-Sad Today
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This children’s book concretely illustrates how common it is to have more than one feeling at the same time – even ones that seem to be the
opposite of each other! As a fun addition, at the end of the book, the
author creates new words to describe various combined emotions (for
example: Hap-sad to describe feeling both happy and sad at the same time).
Attached to God: A Practical Guide to Deeper Spiritual Experience
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This is a comprehensive, straight-forward, fact-filled book series about
sexual development with information targeted for children in each developmental stage. These books help start essential conversations
caregivers need to have with their children about their growing and
changing bodies, sex, boundaries, etc. Caveat: as a caregiver, it’s a great idea to preview books first to make sure you know the content before reading them with your child.
1.) Who Has What? To read with preschool aged children
2.) It's Not the Stork!: A Book About Girls, Boys, Babies, Bodies, Families and Friends To read with young elementary aged children
3.) It's So Amazing!: A Book about Eggs, Sperm, Birth, Babies, and Families To read with children 7 years and up
4.) It’s Perfectly Normal: Changing Bodies, Growing Up, Sex, and Sexual Health For preteens and young teens)




























